Street Etiquette

I cannot remember exactly where I found this, perhaps Godey's Lady's Book, but I thought I would share some notes on the proper etiquette that was suggested for gentlemen and ladies in the 19th century. Many of these rules have gone by the wayside, but I find it a fascinating study on 19th century culture.

Street Etiquette for Gentlemen:

1. Avoid spitting.
2. Smoking in public suggests low breeding in England; it is accepted in streets of America, but never while with a lady.
3. Do not loaf around corners and gaze impertinently at passersby.
4. Do no pick your teeth or nose in public.
5. When walking with a lady, place her on your side away from the street and danger. Always offer your arm.
6. If a strange lady stops you for directions, tip your hat or touch its brim while answering.
7. When walking with a lady and a stranger greets her, respond for her.
8. If you see a lady on the street that you know, offer a tip of your hat and greeting to her.
9. Never "buttonhole" a man while speaking with him.
10. Insist on carrying any parcels a lady is carrying if she is walking with you.
11. Never step in front of a lady without first saying "pardon me" or "with your permission".
12. Always take off your glove to shake a man's hand. Never shake a lady's hand in public.
13. Never walk away from someone or a conversation without first saying "excuse me" or "I beg your pardon".

Street Etiquette for Ladies:

1. Do not scratch, pick your nose, yawn, or laugh loudly in public.
2. Do not recognize someone on the street by their Christian name.
3. Do not offer your hand to shake a man in public.
4. When walking on a street, avoid eye contact with a strange man.
5. If a man offers his arm or to carry your parcels, this is acceptable. Say thank you afterwards.
6. When crossing a muddy or wet street, a lady should lift her skirt and fold it into her right hand. Never lift your skirt above your ankles.
7. When attending public amusements, wear a bonnet.
8. If you require directions, you can approach a gentleman for information. Thank him for his help.
9. Never talk loudly or excessively. Sit with your ankles crossed but never your legs.
10. If a man tips his hat or bows, you should respond unless he is impertinent.
11. If leaving an activity or home late at night, arrange an escort in advance. A married lady may go home unchaperoned if necessary, but a single woman should never.